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- You need tough friends.
You need tough friends.
Or you'll never grow your legacy.
I got slapped.
One voice note.
96 sec of torture.
The reality hit me harder than a left hook from Mike Tyson.
My friend was explaining to me how wrong I was on something.
I was tough.
I almost thought he was making fun of me.
I was like…
“Why the fuk is he bullying me that way?”
But then I heard the last few words:
“I’m pretty sure you’ll see the point.”
That’s when I realized…
This guy was trying to help me.
He gave me advice on branding.
Advice on refining my offer.
Suggestions for content creation.
None of my friends took 1:30 min of their time to drop a voice note ever.
None.
So I replied.
“Bro that’s an interesting perspective. I’m thinking about this right now”
And quite frankly?
I was half lying saying that.
But I did think about what he said.
And found out I wasn’t crystal clear on my idea.
Now imagine if I didn’t.
Imagine if he didn’t.
Imagine if none of us did it.
I’d be stuck with a half-complete idea.
And maybe give up on it.
That’s why you need tough friends.
They’ll make you grow.
Your man,
Adam.
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